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Cleavage: What's Appropriate, What's Not
ABCNews ^ | May 29, 2007 | staff reporter

Posted on 05/30/2007 1:26:52 PM PDT by Daffynition

The weather's getting warmer and necklines are dipping lower -- sometimes, too low.

From the beach to the mall to the office, women seem to be showing off their cleavage more than ever before. Why? According to Elisabeth Squires, author of "Boobs: A Guide to Your Girls," American breasts are getting bigger while shirts are getting smaller.

"We are seeing more cleavage these days for a few reasons. First, the fashion of the day is tight and skinny. At the same time, women are bigger than they were even 15 years ago. Bra fitters tell me that an E cup is the new C cup," Squires said on "Good Morning America."

"We have to remember that while more women are showing more cleavage, you really have to use your breast power responsibly," Squires said.

What's Appropriate When

What looks sexy for a night out on the town may not be appropriate in the workplace. In fact, Squires said cleavage should never make an appearance in the office.

"It's way too big of a distraction for men and women," she said. "If cleavage isn't in your job description, don't put it in."

But that doesn't mean breasts should stay hidden. According to Squires, the appearance of breasts can help women in the workplace.

"A recent study showed men photos of women in a workplace with large breasts showing cleavage, medium breasts and small breasts. When asked about who looked most professional and personable, the men chose the women with medium-sized breasts," she said.

"You don't have to be flat-chested to be taken seriously," she added. "You just have to be proportionate. For women who are small busted, that may mean a little padding. For well-endowed women, that may mean a minimizer."

Squires suggested that women also keep things respectable at family events, like a kids' soccer game.

"This is not the time to show off your girls," she said. "Your children should not have to compete with your cleavage for attention."

Night is prime time to bring out breasts, but Squires suggested women treat their cleavage as part of their outfit -- not a focal point.

"You can certainly be a bit more daring," she said. "This presumably is adult time, and cleavage is powerful. This is the time to use it. But they should be part of your whole look."

Pregnant women are an exception to the rules. Squires said because pregnancy gives breasts a boost they might not have otherwise, women should show them off.

"During pregnancy you should celebrate your breasts. For some women, that's the only time they have cleavage," she said. "Obviously you don't want to go nuts. But cleavage on a pregnant woman is just different -- live it up a bit."

Squires said women of a certain age can still show off cleavage, as 61-year-old Helen Mirren proved at the Oscars.

"It has to be integrated into your entire look," she said. "If a woman of a certain age squeezes her girls together, she'll get the wrinkled, crepelike look. That's not good. But if you're older and you wear a scoop neck and you have beautiful, what the French call decollete, that's great."

Tips for Every Woman

Squires offered advice all women can heed to make their breasts look better:

Don't be in bra denial. The average woman changes bra sizes at least seven times in her life. Get fitted and accept your number and cup size.

Think outside the bra. A strong back and shoulders -- good carriage -- makes your whole body look better, including your breasts. Don't concentrate so much on your underwiring. Concentrate on the rest of your body.

Be good to your girls. Breasts are unique, and the truth is that men love them all. Be more accepting of your body. Most women think breasts only come in two sizes: too big or too small. It's not true. They're beautiful; be good to them.


TOPICS: Heated Discussion
KEYWORDS: cleavage; decorum; fashion; modesty; moralabsolutes; professionaldress
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To: PzLdr

LOL!!!!


121 posted on 05/30/2007 2:48:30 PM PDT by agent_delta
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To: rainbow sprinkles

Most ot the younger women seem to want to do a certain amount of “advertising.” A hint is one thing; practically popping out is something else.


122 posted on 05/30/2007 2:49:03 PM PDT by TBP
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To: al baby; Allegra; Auntbee; BJClinton; Dashing Dasher; dfwddr; exile; feinswinesuksass; ...
Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket TaЯd ping!
123 posted on 05/30/2007 2:50:43 PM PDT by EveningStar
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To: EveningStar

It blinks!


124 posted on 05/30/2007 2:51:16 PM PDT by agent_delta
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To: rainbow sprinkles

125 posted on 05/30/2007 2:52:01 PM PDT by BulletBobCo
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To: Diana in Wisconsin

OMG, I am cracking up!

And I’m also worried that I might have been using my breast power irresponsibly. Or worse, they’ve been using their OWN power and not telling me.


126 posted on 05/30/2007 2:52:39 PM PDT by Xenalyte (Lord, I apologize . . . and be with the starving pygmies in New Guinea amen.)
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To: windcliff

"Tell me again why you want me to stand this way??"


127 posted on 05/30/2007 2:52:39 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: rainbow sprinkles
That looks like the inspiration for Bart Simpson's fly head!


128 posted on 05/30/2007 2:54:29 PM PDT by Xenalyte (Lord, I apologize . . . and be with the starving pygmies in New Guinea amen.)
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To: rainbow sprinkles

129 posted on 05/30/2007 2:55:12 PM PDT by Slings and Arrows ("I AM A SEXY SHOELESS GOD OF WAR!!!" --http://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots0439.html)
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To: Drumbo; TheBigB

*ping*

You’re welcome in advance.


130 posted on 05/30/2007 2:57:58 PM PDT by Titan Magroyne ("Shorn, dumb and bleating is no way to go through life, son." Yeah, close enough.)
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To: DCPatriot

omygosh


131 posted on 05/30/2007 3:03:41 PM PDT by ovrtaxt (I would rather vote for Lindsay Lohan than Lindsey Graham.)
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To: ovrtaxt

You MUST baste the breasts every half hour...until they reach a nice golden tan!


132 posted on 05/30/2007 3:05:19 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: DCPatriot

And it’s 6 months til Thanksgiving. *sigh*


133 posted on 05/30/2007 3:10:21 PM PDT by ovrtaxt (I would rather vote for Lindsay Lohan than Lindsey Graham.)
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To: All

I got my eyes on all of YA!


134 posted on 05/30/2007 3:12:53 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: ovrtaxt
I think I should treat everyone on this thread to Hooters after work!


135 posted on 05/30/2007 3:14:58 PM PDT by Daffynition (A conclusion is the place where you got tired of thinking.)
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To: DCPatriot
You MUST baste the breasts every half hour...until they reach a nice golden tan!

You could baste a chicken like this, but it would be WRONG.
At least my in laws and minister thought so.


136 posted on 05/30/2007 3:20:15 PM PDT by MaryFromMichigan
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To: Slings and Arrows
I have you pegged as a nerd ...surreptitiously posting cats pix on the thread ...but we know the real reason why you are here ...heh!


137 posted on 05/30/2007 3:21:12 PM PDT by Daffynition (A conclusion is the place where you got tired of thinking.)
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To: rainbow sprinkles
I have you pegged as a nerd ...

*Ahem*...

I am nerdier than
95% of all people. Are you nerdier? Click here to find out!

138 posted on 05/30/2007 3:30:04 PM PDT by Slings and Arrows ("I AM A SEXY SHOELESS GOD OF WAR!!!" --http://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots0439.html)
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To: rainbow sprinkles

Please tell me those eyes on that Sphinx cat are photoshopped??


139 posted on 05/30/2007 3:32:10 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: MaryFromMichigan

ROFL!


140 posted on 05/30/2007 3:32:50 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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