You can’t have fun at the expense of all women without getting flack. No.
This isn’t fun for us. Abuse isn’t fun. Rape isn’t fun. Perpetuating myths about women being weak, emotional, slutty, dumb, or even calling them ‘doable.’
It’s not fun.
Look at some more of the comments in this thread. The ladies can get just as randy as the guys. If you don’t like it, move along.....
You can't shame the unashamed.
For many, as long as there is pain, or the memory of pain, no one else is allowed to have "fun" at all. It just isn't respectful.
Most of the rest of us accept that what doesn't kill you can make you stronger. Sure there's pain. There always will be.
But there is also delight, wonder, and the hope of tomorrow. If you want something to materialize into your life, focus on it. Concentrating on remembered pain never lets it heal.
Taking delight in wonder and mystery can bring "fun" into even the most sordid and mundane existence.