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Gay Patient Says Catholic Chaplain Refused Him Last Rites
The Washington Post ^ | 2/20/14 | Michelle Boorstein

Posted on 02/20/2014 6:07:12 AM PST by marshmallow

A Catholic chaplain at MedStar Washington Hospital Center stopped delivering a 63-year-old heart attack patient Communion prayers and last rites after the man said he was gay, the patient said Wednesday, describing a dramatic bedside scene starting with him citing Pope Francis and ending with him swearing at the cleric.

Details of the exchange earlier this month between the Rev. Brian Coelho and retired travel agent Ronald Plishka couldn’t be confirmed with the priest, who did not respond to a direct e-mail or to requests left with the hospital and the archdiocese. The archdiocese of Washington, for whom he works, declined to comment and said Coelho “is not doing interviews.” The bedside discussion was first reported Monday in the Washington Blade.

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TOPICS: Catholic; Ministry/Outreach; Moral Issues; Theology
KEYWORDS: catholic; homosexualagenda; lastrites
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Depends exactly what went down here but it doesn't sound like the patient was imploring God's mercy. If the patient told the priest that he was an unrepentant, sexually active homosexual, then the priest did the correct thing.
1 posted on 02/20/2014 6:07:12 AM PST by marshmallow
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To: marshmallow

Since when did someone’s private, sexual life become fodder for public discourse?

Ain’t nobody’s business but his own.


2 posted on 02/20/2014 6:09:15 AM PST by Tigerized (So. Are YOU better off than you were 5 years ago?)
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To: marshmallow

If he’s still whining about it, it would seem that the “gay patient” didn’t need them.


3 posted on 02/20/2014 6:10:05 AM PST by FlingWingFlyer (As government expands, liberty contracts. - President Ronald W. Reagan)
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To: Tigerized

He’s homosexual. It’s essentially required.


4 posted on 02/20/2014 6:11:18 AM PST by onedoug
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To: marshmallow

Don’t worry, Wuerl will take care of this matter.

Freegards


5 posted on 02/20/2014 6:14:06 AM PST by Ransomed
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To: marshmallow

If he is unrepentant, the priest is under no obligation, as far as I’m aware.

Also, if the man did not feel his sexual acts were sinful.... WHY DID HE MENTION THEM?!

Sounds like this guy was trying to cause a controversy, so its just another rerun of the same boring story. Nothing to see here.

Also, Piglosi should be denied.


6 posted on 02/20/2014 6:15:15 AM PST by Viennacon (M)
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To: marshmallow

If I want to belong to an organization, I keep their rules. A man admitting to sexual perversion is not keeping the rules of the Catholic Church, but he still wants to partake in all the perks. I’m sorry but I agree with the priest. I think more priests should have the intestinal fortitude that this man has.


7 posted on 02/20/2014 6:16:00 AM PST by maxwellsmart_agent
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To: marshmallow

Well, he was sure the church was wrong about one thing. Why not gamble on needing last rites too.


8 posted on 02/20/2014 6:16:47 AM PST by Bogey78O (We had a good run. Coulda been great still.)
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To: marshmallow

1. The Catholic Church requires that a full confession of known mortal sins is needed before the reception of Holy Communion. Persisting in sexual acts outside of sacramental marriage is a mortal sin. The ill person MUST have declared that he was not planning to change his behavior or that he was not repentant of past behavior.

2. “Someone walked in” when the sacrament of The Anointing of the Sick was going on. Did that 3rd party stay in the room? Absolute and complete privacy is a requirement for confession. The priest did the right thing by leaving the room if he determined that privacy could not be guaranteed.


9 posted on 02/20/2014 6:17:09 AM PST by Remole
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To: marshmallow

Agreed. IIRC, last rites include praying a “perfect” act of contrition - if he is not contrite, last rites are pointless.


10 posted on 02/20/2014 6:18:34 AM PST by knittnmom (Save the earth! It's the only planet with chocolate!)
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To: FlingWingFlyer

LOL!


11 posted on 02/20/2014 6:18:40 AM PST by Tax-chick (The future is not going to take us seriously.)
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To: marshmallow

I’ve got one question that is rather important on the scale of things. Last (LAST) Rites.....did this homosexual die? Did he recover?

Seems to me if he ain’t dead, he’s got some time to shop around for a New Age Priest of Anything Goes and get his last rites.


12 posted on 02/20/2014 6:19:11 AM PST by Gaffer (Comprehensive Immigration Reform is just another name for Comprehensive Capitulation)
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To: marshmallow

As a new Catholic it is my understanding that Last Rites is final forgiveness of sin. If the man was not willing to admit his sexual preference was a sin, then naturally the Priest would be forced to act in accordance with Church law.


13 posted on 02/20/2014 6:22:03 AM PST by navymom1
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To: marshmallow

I am not Catholic, But I totally agree with the priest.

An Unrepentant Sinner is not entitled to a Sacrament that includes repenting of sin.

The Catholic Church says Homosexuality is a sin, and needs to be confessed as such in order to receive Communion.

If this guy did not deem it a sin, he wouldn’t have brought it up and just would have quietly taken Communion.

It would seem that he was “Double-Dog-Daring” the Priest to refuse him.

And he is still alive, so he probably didn’t need the Last Rites anyway.

I am so sick of these “In-Your-Face” set-ups and attacks against people of faith.


14 posted on 02/20/2014 6:24:53 AM PST by left that other site
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To: Tigerized

How about when the individual flaunts his “sexuality.”


15 posted on 02/20/2014 6:27:33 AM PST by AEMILIUS PAULUS (It is a shame that when these people give a riot)
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To: navymom1
If the man was not willing to admit his sexual preference activity was a sin ...

A desire to engage in sodomy (with a same-sex or opposite-sex partner) is a temptation to sin, which should be resisted.

Actually doing the deed is the sin, which must be repented before a person can receive absolution and Communion.

16 posted on 02/20/2014 6:28:02 AM PST by Tax-chick (The future is not going to take us seriously.)
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To: marshmallow

The sin is homosexuality. It’s apparent the complainer has refused to change his homosexual ways, which is part of making a good confession.


17 posted on 02/20/2014 6:28:13 AM PST by kenmcg
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To: marshmallow

I’m not a Catholic and have no ax to grind, but when you are in an organization you play by their rules or leave it. No grounds for complaint. The press doesn’t get to set Catholic doctrine.


18 posted on 02/20/2014 6:29:10 AM PST by 'smith
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To: marshmallow

If there ever was a case doomed to failure this would be it.

They guys alive and complaining about poor service. Tell him God gave him one more chance to straighten out.


19 posted on 02/20/2014 6:32:09 AM PST by Usagi_yo (Standardization is an Evolutionary dead end.)
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To: marshmallow

This is one of those stories where I’m suspicious that it did, in fact, happen but wouldn’t be overly surprised to find it was true.


20 posted on 02/20/2014 6:32:27 AM PST by DoodleDawg
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