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Family Raising Money for Army Veteran’s Funeral
FOX 40 ^ | 8/4/13 | Rowena Shaddox

Posted on 08/05/2013 2:24:44 PM PDT by Kartographer

They need to come up with $6,600 for their dad, uncle, husband and brother: 65-year-old Vincent Lopez.

“All of us are here. We’re all family, cousins and sisters and brothers. We’re trying to do this by tomorrow. We have to do this by tomorrow at noon,” said Diana Ramirez, Lopez’s eldest daughter.

That’s because the family says North Sacramento Funeral Home, which has Mr. Lopez’s body, won’t start work until they have the money.

“The funeral home is asking for $6,300,” said Phyllis Rosa, Lopez’s widowed wife.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events; US: California
KEYWORDS: veteran
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Can any Freepers confirm this? I would very much like to help if it's not a scam.
1 posted on 08/05/2013 2:24:44 PM PDT by Kartographer
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“They need to come up with $6,600...”

“The funeral home is asking for $6,300,...”

Okay, I’m confused. Is this legit?


2 posted on 08/05/2013 2:27:17 PM PDT by Carriage Hill (Guns kill people, pencils misspell words, cars drive drunk & spoons make you fat.i)
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That’s what I am asking.


3 posted on 08/05/2013 2:28:11 PM PDT by Kartographer ("We mutually pledge to each other our lives, our fortunes and our sacred honor.")
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All the children, cousins nieces nephews can not come up with six thousands some dollars Sure.


4 posted on 08/05/2013 2:29:05 PM PDT by riverrunner
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To: carriage_hill

The veterens admin gives something don’t they?


5 posted on 08/05/2013 2:30:31 PM PDT by nikos1121 (“To err is human; to forgive, divine.” Alexander Pope (1688-1744) English poet)
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To: Kartographer

If he has a Life Ins Policy why are they panhandling for cash?
If he is dead there must be a death cert somewhere.


6 posted on 08/05/2013 2:30:57 PM PDT by Autonomous User (Pain Fades. Chicks Dig Scars. Glory, lasts forever.)
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There is life insurance, but it won’t release funds without the death certificate from the funeral home.

“The money is there but, until we have proof of the death certificate, they cannot release any money,” Rosa said.

Something fishy here?

7 posted on 08/05/2013 2:31:57 PM PDT by rawhide
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To: riverrunner

I personally know of several families right here in NM that couldn’t come up with it. Generations who have always lived paycheck to paycheck, I imagine that especially today’s economy it’s not that uncommon.


8 posted on 08/05/2013 2:32:54 PM PDT by Kartographer ("We mutually pledge to each other our lives, our fortunes and our sacred honor.")
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I am confused as to why they are begging for money if the life insurance will cover the bill?


9 posted on 08/05/2013 2:33:55 PM PDT by rawhide
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To: rawhide

When my husband died, I tried to pay the bill with a credit card. They refused, said to just wait until the insurance paid. There was no charge for the cemetery as it was a National Cemetery that is available to all honorable veterans.


10 posted on 08/05/2013 2:37:15 PM PDT by Coldwater Creek (")
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To: Kartographer

I think the family is getting scammed by the funeral home. Grief-stricken relatives don’t always make the best decisions and are easy prey. Somebody who “knows something” needs to sit down with an itemized list of what the funeral home is charging, determine what is required and what the family is being told they have to do, and get the costs down to what the family can manage. For example ... embalming costs could be eliminated - not legally required in any state. Casket costs (are they being sold the most expensive model?), printing programs, viewing, moving, flowers .... you can reduce and/or eliminate some of these costs depending on preferences. If the family wants a big funeral with all the trimmings, they’re going to get a big bill.


11 posted on 08/05/2013 2:39:53 PM PDT by MissMagnolia (You see, truth always resides wherever brave men still have ammunition. I pick truth. (John Ransom))
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Something fishy here?

That's what I'm thinking. The funeral home doesn't do death certificates, the county clerk of records does. I had to track down my fathers death certificate for the VA so he could be buried at the Ft. Snelling National Cemetery. That along with the DD214 and we had no problems.

12 posted on 08/05/2013 2:43:43 PM PDT by Traveler59 ( Truth is a journey, not a destination.)
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We have to do this by tomorrow at noon

??... won't do a payment plan?

13 posted on 08/05/2013 2:48:27 PM PDT by GeronL
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To: MissMagnolia

I think you might have hit on part of it.


14 posted on 08/05/2013 2:49:45 PM PDT by Kartographer ("We mutually pledge to each other our lives, our fortunes and our sacred honor.")
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To: Kartographer

If it sounds fishy, send them Soros’s email address.


15 posted on 08/05/2013 2:53:31 PM PDT by Bringbackthedraft (Remember Ty Woods? Glenn Doherty ? Forgot already?)
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To: nikos1121

I don’t have any military background, but I did find this:

http://www.cem.va.gov/cem/burial_benefits/index.asp

&

https://www.funerals.org/frequently-asked-questions/60-veterans-funeral-and-burial-benefits


16 posted on 08/05/2013 2:57:30 PM PDT by Carriage Hill (Guns kill people, pencils misspell words, cars drive drunk & spoons make you fat.i)
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To: Kartographer

They need to contact their nearest American Legion Post.


17 posted on 08/05/2013 2:58:28 PM PDT by NonValueAdded ("When there is no penalty for failure, failures proliferate." George F. Will)
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To: nikos1121

An American Flag to drape the coffin...


18 posted on 08/05/2013 2:59:40 PM PDT by SgtBob (Freedom is not for the faint of heart. Semper Fi!)
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To: Kartographer; SortaBichy
Anytime I need the car washed, I kinda wait for a gang-related shooting over in Indio or Coachella......sure thing, then, there'll be what I call a "Funeral car wash" along the main drag.

Five bucks, 20 Hispanics swarming the car, and I'm good to go.

19 posted on 08/05/2013 3:02:14 PM PDT by ErnBatavia (Carlos Danger for mayor....NYC deserves him)
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To: rawhide

Yes something is fishy. I know when my father died we used his life insurance money to bury him. Since we needed the Death Certificate what we did was to sign over the Life Insurance Certificate over to the funeral home and they in turn claim the money and that was it. I don’t understand why they couldn’t do that.


20 posted on 08/05/2013 3:14:49 PM PDT by Patriot Babe
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