We've spent the summer visiting different churches and all of them have problems to the extent that it's nearly impossible to concentrate on the matter at hand; the bottom line culminates in a basic lack of reverence. There's too much gabbing before Mass, the servers slouch and fidget, the choirs perform rather than complement the Mass and are congratulated with vigorous applause afterwards, and most people don't use a Missal or follow along with paperback prayerbooks provided them. At the Church we're currently attending (wife wins out), the priest gives great homilies, but he skips the Gloria (more time for his homily, maybe), rushes through the preparation of the bread and wine and jokes with the servers during absolution, and "wings" the Eucharistic Prayer. I know I should address this with him but I haven't gotten around to it yet (I will, though). But that's pretty much the same wherever we go around Portland. /rant