Must be our sweet and gentle personalities overcoming the misrepresentations of our critics.
Back when I was in Jr High a friend of mine had a dog. A neighbor of his hated it. He complained that it barked too much, and smelled bad. One day this neighbor laced the dog food with antifreeze. The dog died the next day.
Funny thing about antifreeze and dogs. It has a sweet taste that dogs love. But it kills.
Your sweet and gentle personalities that you claim overcome misrepresentations, is much like the anti freeze. Your doctrine that kills is laced with it.