One of my biggest gripes with the usual gang of "traditionalist" suspects is their propensity to separate themselves from the Novus Ordo parishes and to develop an incestuous inbreeding of ideas in which they imagine themselves superior to the actual Church because all fifteen people they know agree with them.
The Novus Ordo churches have a need for some traditionalists with emotional self-control to check the abuses that the Kumbaya crowd want to institutionalize. There is nothing that the AmChurch liberals love more than ghettoizing Trintine Catholics. The suspects are eager to ghettoize themselves.
As to the last point, of course, the Faith was never meant to be limited to our homes, but it must BE in our ho,mes as well as in the public arena. We are the ones who are responsible for our respective children and their moral development. If we don't educate them, others will and we will not like the results. Not only that but we are morally responsible for our failures to educate the children God has entrusted to us. I know you know that but I wanted to say it lest anyone else be misled.
I started my eldest in the parochial scool I attended. The pastor of the parish was thoroughly orthodox and used to say the Tridentine Mass for us at another parish on occasion. Even he could not stem the evil of a bureaucracy which imposed a radical ex-nun as the principal (as we learned the hard way). When our then six year old was repeatedly taught that Christ did not know He was God even on the cross, we were convinced of homeschooling after exchanging nastygrams with the radical ex-nun to no avail.