There is one simple question I asked on Post #341 which you seem to have overlooked however. Even my simple mind would be able to comprehend, I believe- that is - maybe - possibly. Well, in any event, let's try one more time.
#341
(SD) Yes, of course. Except that Stephen got this grace through Baptism and the coming of the Holy Spirit, after being born in the normal state. This was all after the Crucifixion, of course.
(OR) Please show me Scripture where Stephen received his "grace" through Baptism.
No, thank you. Even if I were to show Stephen being baptized, you would argue that it doesn't impart any grace. So let's not bother.
SD