[JMJ333]

I don't think they can relate. It really does have to be experienced to be understood. I sponsored someone into the church once and they were terrified about going. It almost prevented him from joining, he was that uncomfortable about it.

I think some new converts or others believe you have to tell every mortal sin you can think of since early childhood, but for new members I think two or three issues is enough to tackle on the first time--that will be plenty of time to talk to the priest and develop a comfort level.

And after confession ALL past sins are forgiven ,even ones not mentioned. I usually say something to the effect when nearing the end of my list: And for everything that I cannot now remember, but want to be forgiven with a sincere heart.

It really is painless and it draws you closer to Christ.

[Desdemona]

J, you make it sound like these people think it's a physical or something. Confession? Definitely the easiest of the sacraments. You have to make yourself go.