If you as a parent did that to your kids, you'd be one creepy guy. Someone who would condemn another to eternal hell fires for such trivialities is not a god of "love" but a god of "hate." A really sick and twisted deity.
The only reason religions come up with vengeful gods is to scare the h*ll out of people who might otherwise start to think for themselves.
What a nightmare world you must live in to accept such a petty god.