You said: So the act of choosing to hate one's fellow man and God will be no biggie in the day when God says he will JUDGE the secrets of men's hearts?[Romans 2:16; Matt.5:21]
Are you arguing with me or with what Jesus said. If you think you are arguing with me, I assure you, I agree with what He said.
I never argue with one-armed boat rowers --- after hours of going in circles their boats eventually sink.
And no ... I'm not talking about Jesus. :D