Nah, rdb's post was pure encouragement, brother.
Don't let the spiritual combat-zone give you the "thousand yard stare", friend.
Rdb ain't criticizing; he's commending you for holding the line. ;-)
This extends far beyond the Calvinist/Arminian paradigm.
There are only two ways to answer the question: Yes or no.
Anything outside of this is pure conjecture. Therefore, I encourage you to stick to your guns.
Thanks! That's how I took it on first reading, then decided not to assume anything and thought I'd better ask. :D