I should make it clear that I was not directing my post to you. I have noted that you have been most considerate and most rational in your posts. However, there are several on both sides that spoil the "debate" for everyone. My hands certainly aren't clean in that regard, but I've been attempting to limit my time here in order to avoid those situations. There are some posters, and some posts, I will simply ignore.
But what I won't ignore is the assertion by certain Calvinists that the Arminians won't/don't understand or consider their point of view when they have steadfastly refused to offer the same consideration or "charity" as they like to say to the Arminians. They will say it's because they know they are right.
Well, so do we.