What they are generating is not hatred because of the Gospel, but hatred because they are jerks. If we present the Gospel in a loving manner with a true concern that we are the representatives of Christ on earth, then we can be certain that those who reject the gospel and hate us will be hating us for Christ's sake and not because we are jerks. If we are hated because we are jerks, then we have no claim that we are being persecuted for Christ, we are merely being persecuted because we ourselves deserve it. It is a persecution of our "works" not of our Lord.
Save the drama for your "momma!"
Amen! And there is not shortage of such "jerks" and they are always very pious.
Hank