And I thought I had problems with the nazi CCD nun forbidding my son to take his First Communion orally tomorrow. (he can do it like that for the rest of his life, but his first time HAS to be in his hands).The CCD nun is dead wrong. These are the norms for reception of communion as found in The General Instruction of the Roman Missal, Appendix to the General Instruction for the Dioceses of the United States:
240. DISTRIBUTION OF COMMUNIONOn June 17, 1977, the Congregation of Sacraments and Divine Worship approved the request of the National Conference of Catholic Bishops to permit the optional practice of Communion in the hand. The Bishops' Committee on the Liturgy, in its catechesis about this optional practice, drew attention to these considerations:
a. Proper catechesis must be provided to assure the proper and reverent reception of Communion without any suggestion of wavering on the part of the Church in its faith in the Eucharistic presence.
b. The practice must remain the option of the communicant. The priest or minister of Communion does not make the decision as to the manner of reception of Communion. It is the communicant's personal choice.
c. When Communion is distributed under both kinds by intinction, the host is not placed in the hands of the communicants, nor may the communicants receive the host and dip it into the chalice. Intinction should not be introduced as a means of circumventing the practice of Communion in the hand.
d. Children have the option to receive Communion in the hand or on the tongue. No limitations because of age have been established. Careful preparation for first reception of the Eucharist will provide the necessary instruction. (See also the Roman Ritual, , no. 21.)
Anyway, I posted my problem in detail here on FR and several people gave me advice on it. (history_matters offered to call the nun! Let's say a prayer for him, btw) Anyway, my parish priest told me that my son could/would receive orally if he chose to do that (which he does).