Rev 2:7 He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches; To him that overcometh will I give to eat of the tree of life, which is in the midst of the paradise of God.
Since these words are being spoken to the Churches [JH: "all of us believers in His 'church,'"], They have joined with Christ, and should have Eternal security.
Now you may give all due credit for your overcoming to Jesus (which would make it, by my understanding, a manifestation of irresistible Grace), but why does this passage say you will not eat of the tree of life unless you overcome, and how could you not overcome if it was all due to Jesus?
What does overcoming mean to you?
If overcome means "receive Eternal security" why mention it to Churches that already have that, and if not, why put it in the form of a warning :"he who has ears, let him hear?"
Do you agree that the "Tree of Life" is Eternal Life?
Gen 3:22 And the LORD God said, Behold, the man is become as one of us, to know good and evil: and now, lest he put forth his hand, and take also of the tree of life, and eat, and live for ever:
The answer to your question (in paraphrase) why does it never tell us we can lose our Eternal security? is this: these passages, and the one above, clearly do say that unless we interpret them the way you do: James 1:12-15, and Mat 24:13 and Cor 9:27, and Peter 2:20 all say much the same thing, and further, James says that failure to win the crown (resist temptation) is death.
It may be that it never occurred to the authors that their message could ever have been misunderstood given the context, and they took it for granted that we would all continue to interpret the Bible in the same way. Clearly we do not. As a message of peace and love and promise, perhaps the authors felt it should remain the hopeful side of the equation and left the serious fire and brimstone up to the Pastors of the individual churches.
v.
1:13 Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man:
1:14 But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed.
1:15 Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death
. Reward for enduring=Crown of Life
Penalty for not enduring=death
Reward for overcoming=eat of the Tree of Life
Penalty for not overcoming=death
As a working definition of temptation: anything that closes you to Grace: the snares of Satan, Sin, and failure to follow His word. That which will cause you to fall away unless you repent of it.If you feel they are different, can you explain why?
v.
this is my final post on the subject. If my point is not clear after these thousands of words, it will never be. Thank you for listening.