Had you been around here a little longer you would have been able to see my tongue in my cheek. It was a supportive post. Mary is not part of the Trinity (Besides, it would have to be "Quadrinity" unless she bumps the HS).
You must have missed the "< /sarcasm>" on the tag line?
First, you seem to be able to use colors and sizes. It is customary to cut-and-paste in italics the text of a person's post to which you are responding. This board moves very fast and referring to something days ago without any reference is like laughing about the movie on the way home. you are more likely to be ignored thatn to have someone bother to go back hundreds of messages to find what you are referring to.
Second, you should take some time to learn the characters. This, and other clues, will likely help you know when someone is joking or being facetious.
Third, simple one-line refutations of people based upon unreferenced facts will not go very far. We have heard just about every argument before, so you have to be prepared to back up what you say.
Welcome and enjoy.
SD