[malakhi]

Yall think, I should stay and deal with this or go elsewhere? Am I over-reacting?

Refresh my memory. Had you told the pastor not to bring this up with your husband?

Stopping by unannounced and uninvited, and questioning him like that, when he had never even met your husband, is pretty cheeky. For whatever my opinion is worth, I'd be looking for a different church.

[CindyDawg]

He kept asking if he could visit and I kept telling him not a good time. I had decided to tell him just no caz my husband uncomfortable about it, but he never asked me again.