Another excellent suggestion. I could record it and play it subliminally when they sleep.
My daughter is a Social worker..she works with "children at RISK" ..she is SURE it has to do with weak parenting and a failure to make positive expectations sure to the kids..she really does tell the girls that often...
There was a slight bump in the road recently when her husbands brother had a baby out of wedlocked..Hannah 7 keeps asking How that could be he is not married:>))..My daughter changed the topic..alot *grin*