I never said anything about VadeRetro's work. I'm also working on a refutation. That way you can never say that no one addresses your points in these posts.
BTW, as for your psychologist friend, you might direct him toward a fellow named Ted Holden. I plugged his name into a search engine and came up with 775 hits, including at least one where he threatened to get several folks fired from their jobs for disagreeing with him in print. He has several websites devoted to his rather unorthodox views and his rather acerbic manner of presenting them. I think your friend could write reams on this fellow -- hundreds of other people already appear to have done so.
A lot of people maintain opinions on me and my opinions on www pages and the vast bulk of it does not violate American libel laws. David Ian Grieg, for instance, is the keeper of the second link you note; no laws are being violated and no problems or hard feelings exist between him and myself. The other thing you mention involves clear violations of American libel laws and I am not the only person on Earth who views that as criminal activity.