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Why Christians Don't Understand Non-Christians
ArGee | 1/3/01 | ArGee

Posted on 01/03/2002 11:19:13 AM PST by ArGee

A very rich man decided that he wanted to show kindness to the people of the fair city where he lived. Since he was very rich indeed, he decided to throw a banquet for the entire city. He rented the largest sports arena in the city and began his plans. He planned for huge amounts of the best food possible, making allowances for every religious and medical diet. He advertised the banquet in every possible manner - television, radio, billboard, door-to-door canvassing. Considering that there might be some who could not travel, he arranged for free bus transportation to and from the event, and some special-needs vehicles for all who could not ride busses. He even scheduled the banquet to run for 24 hours a day for several days so that everyone could be sure of being served.

He planned long and hard and finally the big day came. The rich man ate quickly and then went about wishing all his guests well and personally making sure that all had every need met. After a while he went outside to tour the grounds and talk with those who had not yet gone in, and those who had already left. Everyone was happy. Many were profusely thankful. It was a glorious occasion.

At one point the rich man noticed a group of people sitting outside a locked door with most unpleasant looks on their faces. Sensing they were not happy, he went over to them. He did not introduce himself but simply asked them if he could be of service.

"We want to go in through this door," one of them replied.

The rich man explained to them that the hall was arranged to feed a large number of people as quickly and effortlessly as possible. This required order inside, and the entrances and exits had been carefully planned to be as efficient as possible. He then offered to go call one of the golf carts that were avaialbe to help people who could not walk far to take them to the entrance. But the man replied, "We do not want to go in the entrance. We want to go in this door. We don't understand why we can't go in any door we wish. We think the man who set this banquet up is mean and hateful for insisting we go in through the entrance. He has tried to bill himself as a very kind man by offering this banquet, but he is not kind at all if he will not indulge us and let us go through this door.

The rich man was distressed at these words, but still attempted to please these people. He tried once more to explain to them what was behind this particular door, and how if they went in this door they would disrupt the meal service being offered inside. He offered to drive them himself, not only to the door, but inside the hall to their tables if they would only go through the entrance to enjoy the meal. Again the man said, "No, but only a hateful man would keep us from going through the door of our choosing. And we will sit here and tell anyone who will listen to us what an awful man he is until he lets us in."

At that the rich man was enraged and he shouted, "Enough." Then he called a police officer to have them thrown off of the property and ordered that they not be allowed to return until the banquet was over and all the scraps had been hauled away. Then, mourning for their loss, he turned to visit with other guests.


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I have always wanted to explain this, but it is a little long for a reply in a thread. When someone tells me how evil G-d is for sending non-Christians to hell, I view them as the person outside the locked door who refuses to go through the entrance, even though G-d has done everything possible to make the entrance easy to go through.

And, I admit I just don't understand that.

Shalom.

1 posted on 01/03/2002 11:19:16 AM PST by ArGee
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To: JMJ333; EODGUY; proud2bRC; RnMomof7
Friends, If you see a problem in this little story, please let me know what it is so that I can correct it. If you think it is accurate and useful, please invite your non-Christian friends to the thread. I'd like to know what they think.

Shalom.

2 posted on 01/03/2002 11:23:59 AM PST by ArGee
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To: ArGee
Wonderful illustration, ArGee.
3 posted on 01/03/2002 11:25:41 AM PST by rdb3
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To: ArGee
Wow !.....very persuasive updated version of one of Jesus's parables.......I can hardly wait to read all the vitriolic responses......
4 posted on 01/03/2002 11:27:52 AM PST by Texas Eagle
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To: ArGee
Your analogy is very good up until the rich man yells "Enough!" Our Lord never gives up on us, no matter how many times we turn away from Him. He always gives us the opportunity "to go through the correct door."

Perhaps a better ending would be to have the "group of people sitting outside the locked door" spend eternity smelling the delicious food at the banquet but NEVER getting to taste it.

5 posted on 01/03/2002 11:34:57 AM PST by vrwinger
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To: ArGee
Nice story Argee.

Perhaps you can tell some of the Biblical Christians around here that the enterance may very well include LDSers and Catholics. As well as not affilliated with a Religion Christians.

6 posted on 01/03/2002 11:35:43 AM PST by francisandbeans
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To: ArGee
It's a nice parable, drawing on Jesus's parable of the wedding feast and the invited/uninvited guests. The problem for non-believers is that the story presumes a direct encounter between all the potential guests and the rich patron. The guests have the opportunity to hear about the baquet, come down to the hall, and talk to the patron. Since the banquet is heaven and the rich man is the Father, for the story to be analagous for non-believers, God would have to reveal himself, reveal heaven, and dialog with humanity in a direct sense. Seeing as how He hasn't chosen to do it quite that way, we're left with imperfect parables to describe the perfect. Absent faith, the parables can be easily misunderstood and unappreciated ("He who has ears, let him hear..."). But nice job, anyway. :)
7 posted on 01/03/2002 11:35:59 AM PST by kezekiel
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To: Texas Eagle
Should be an interesting thread.
8 posted on 01/03/2002 11:37:25 AM PST by Mikey
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To: ArGee
You forgot to include all the people that hear the advertising for the banquet, and go around telling every one that will listen that it is all nonsense; no one rented the hall, no one is offering a banquet, and all the evidence for the reality of the event is a scam; a myth invented be the frightened hungry people of the city...
9 posted on 01/03/2002 11:38:36 AM PST by L,TOWM
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To: ArGee
bumpitty.

Keep the belt of truth buckled around your waist,
and take up thy shield of faith - the flaming arrows will soon start flying your way.

10 posted on 01/03/2002 11:39:34 AM PST by sanchmo
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To: vrwinger
Your analogy is very good up until the rich man yells "Enough!" Our Lord never gives up on us, no matter how many times we turn away from Him. He always gives us the opportunity "to go through the correct door."

It is my belief that the door is closed permanently when we face G-d in judgement after death. If, at that time, we have not become His, then we may never become His.

However, I understand your belief and will not challenge it too strongly. Your ending is also a good one.

Shalom.

12 posted on 01/03/2002 11:39:37 AM PST by ArGee
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To: rdb3
Thank you.

Shalom.

13 posted on 01/03/2002 11:40:08 AM PST by ArGee
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To: Texas Eagle
Thank you.

Shalom.

14 posted on 01/03/2002 11:40:33 AM PST by ArGee
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To: ArGee
Bump for later.
15 posted on 01/03/2002 11:41:28 AM PST by humblegunner
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To: L,TOWM
ooops---... invented by the...
16 posted on 01/03/2002 11:42:19 AM PST by L,TOWM
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To: francisandbeans
Perhaps you can tell some of the Biblical Christians around here that the enterance may very well include LDSers and Catholics.

When I am in a conversation with individuals, I prefer to discuss only the individual and myself. I am not interested in "all those other people."

The question is for you and me, are we accepting G-d's invitation to the banquet and following His way or insisting He do things our way?

Shalom.

17 posted on 01/03/2002 11:43:00 AM PST by ArGee
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To: ArGee
Very good parable. But the non-participants in the meal can perhaps be divided into two groups: (1) Those who want to eat but will not use the designated door; and (2) those who know in their hearts that the banquet food is the best meal they can have but refuse to partake at all.

There is no shortage of people who refuse to believe the gospel because it is inconvenient to their lifestyle.

18 posted on 01/03/2002 11:44:09 AM PST by tom h
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To: ArGee
You are wrong when you say/imply that non-Christians don't understand Christians. We do. We just don't buy Christian theology. We're not locked out. We have our own more open and accessable paths to where we want to go in this life and in the next.
19 posted on 01/03/2002 11:45:25 AM PST by Magician
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To: ArGee
Golf carts right at the Pearly Gates. Imagine that?
20 posted on 01/03/2002 11:46:37 AM PST by Cagey
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