I almost considered just ignoring your comment as it is wrong in the extreme. I am making no argument to justify the willful death of anyone. I am making the argument that IVF might not be so clearly defined morally. At no point would I agree with a willfull self serving attempt to an individuals comfort that results in the death of another.
In the fetus willfully aborted through IVF any less dead than the fetus willfully aborted for any other reason?