A few years back, my wife’s daughter married another woman.
To say that I was flabbergasted when I found out she was gay and marrying another woman would have been an understatement.
I outright refused to attend the wedding or have anything to do with it. The pastor of the church we were attending at the time sought me out to discuss it. He felt that I should attend primarily for my wife’s sake.
Long story short, I reluctantly attended but only in support of my wife. I found it totally disgusting and a mockery of God’s plan of marriage. I will NEVER attend another gay wedding if I have anything to say about it. I ended up eventually leaving that church over it. My wife still goes to there, but I go somewhere that adheres more closely to the Word of God.
I started praying for that gay couple though. Three years later: divorce, but not before they had a little girl thru artificial insemination. These people are insane.
Your gut told you “no”.
Then you listened to other people and worried about what other people thought.
That was an error.
Trust your initial gut reaction—it will never steer you wrong.
Sorry that you had to be involved in that! Don't know how close you were to your step-daughter (I'm assuming that she was already an adult when you married her mother, which would explain why you were "flabbergasted.")
So your wife is now the grandmother of that little girl. Does she ever come to "Grandma's House" for a visit?
Regards,