Please explain how it is wrong, as you'd apparently rather refight the Reformation than have a respectful conversation about Jesus.
You don’t want a respectful conversation about Jesus, you want the Catholic dogma to be truth and it is definitely not. The Bible is totally clear regarding how one gets born again, and it is not something you work for it is by faith in Who did the work. Your religion is not Christianity it is catholicism. I do not respect you enough to go further in this exchange.