Tell that to your leadership whom you are to follow, who manifestly treats even proabortion, prohomosexual public figures as members in life and in death (showing the Vatican's understanding of canon law).
They are your brethren, and you cannot leave (as I did as one raised devout and a weekly and HDO mass-going RC for about 6 years after becoming actually born again, and who later was led by God into evangelical faith) without being schismatic.
Did you tell them?