I wish you would just go to a Bible believing church instead of abandoning altogether. Your response if it is “stop worshiping and being a church member” pleat right into our enemy’s hands.
I think for some. myself included find church and Christians more of a political animal and behavior more akin to pharisees. My wife still attends and I will at weddings and baptism. It doesn’t mean I’m playing in to the enemy’s hands. It means for me, being in that environment does not enhance my faith, it diminishes it.