How do you abide in God’s love? By “keeping his commandments”
“If you say you love him and you don’t keep his commandments, you are a liar”
13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.
14 For God shall bring every work into JUDGMENT, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil.
If you are repentant of your sins, you are covered by God’s grace and we will all see each other in heaven.
You asserted, If you are repentant of your sins, you are covered by God’s grace and we will all see each other in heaven."
It is IMPOSSIBLE to recount your every sin during a day in the life of a born again Christians. The sin of pride is one of the most pernicious hidden sins, but lusts are also well hidden from consciousness in many cases. The spirit with God abiding therein is not the source of the sins in the born agains. The flesh which is still active IS THE SOURCE. God has foretold that HE will give us a new body and behavior mechanism in the Rapture. That which cannot get out from under condemnation, the flesh (body and soul) is going to be discarded in the Rapture if you are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord Christ. For those who have died, the sentence on the flesh has been executed, they have died, so their ability to commit sin has ended in death but they still await the judgment if they were not born again while alive.