In philosophy there is a concept called the “transcendent third” which states that you love someone more completely when you love what they love. Surely Jesus loved Mary.
John 3:16 is not just words.
Col_2:8 Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
We don't give two toots for man's philosophy, and neither should any other Christian...