“...and to have married a similar man of God.”
Well, my fiance’ was in the Pastoral program at Seminary but did not go into the ministry. And he wasn’t “a man of God”, as it turned out.
Oops; I went and assumed too much there, didn’t I. In fact, I knew of a very similar situation. The guy went to Bible college and appeared to love and cherish the Lord. After a few years in a secular environment he was living for the devil. Hence our role as fruit inspectors only, since only God knows the heart.