So are you saying that the God who is infinite in His perfections is actually finite in His love toward some of His creatures, i.e., that He loves them less than others?
That He could have loved all of His (human) creatures equally and saved all of them eternally, but chose not to do so because he receives more pleasure and glory by damning some of them to hell forever?
No, I am not saying that at all.
That’s not the position I hold.
However, God loving all of His creatures that He created equally does not mean by default that He is going to save them. He has given man the option to accept His offer of salvation or reject it.