I didn’t say that He’s passive-aggressive.
That’s why it means when you say “God allowed”. You turn something he didn’t do (i.e. Intervene) into an action for which you have established blame.
Say you are driving down the road and you run off into the shoulder. Then you turn to your passenger and ask “Why did you allow me do that?”. It’s the same thing.
Instead, think of it this way: Bad things are going to happen because Satan is the ruler of this world.