I am not the authority. God and His Word is the authority.
I am not judging any person. I am applying God's Word to practices and beliefs that contradict His Word.
Reading the Scriptures is not enough. You must study to show yourself approved.
I told that to someone on this thread once and she said, "I have a life. I don't have time for that."
And so it goes. People make choices and value judgements about their lives and priorities.
Will you discuss the what God actually said and taught?