Whenever agape-love is mentioned, you change the subject as quickly as you can. For those being saved, however, there is no more wonderful topic:
John 3:
16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
Here is your "love" Wolf:
"Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law. Love is the law, love under will."
It's a perversion, rendered in the spirit of anti-Christ to defile the bride of Christ, His church and temporal body, which Satan has always coveted.
The sheep living in the body of Christ, wedded and bound by grace to Him in His Church, are discerned by whether or not they follow His teachings - and His teaching on Marriage is:
MALE and FEMALE. Matt 19:4-6 4 "Haven't you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,'a 5 and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'?b 6 So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." NIV John 14:24 24 He who does not love me will not obey my teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me. NIV