Sorry...ain't buyin' it! You wouldn't have even mentioned Paul's admonition about women speaking in church if the "spirit" of your comments was merely about Elsie's words. Admit you wrongly assumed Elsie was a she and you hoped he/she would back off the argument against you because of your authority of gender, and we can move on. Otherwise, your sexist machinations are exposed.
That one SHOULD leave a mark ...but don’t hold your breath.
“...Admit you wrongly assumed Elsie was a she...”
Does Elsie LOOK like a he?:
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/religion/3509997/posts?page=562#562
(He, He, He!)