[Mr. Douglas]

What about the Christian guy I know of that went on a softball team trip to Yakima and while carousing with the rest of the team they were at a pizza place where there was this drop dead gorgious girl that all the guys were gawking at.

Except him. He loved his wife and ignored this woman.

In the end, he slept with her that night. Apparently his initial lack of interest is what made him the desirable conquest to this woman.

As soon as he met his wife at Seatac airport after the trip, he told her what happened and apologized. I assume they are still married to this day.

What he did was “willful”. Is he lost?

[rollo tomasi]

He repented, wife was free to either divorce (Since the marriage bed was violated) or stay in the marriage. Your friend however could not remarry, based on Christ's commands, until his ex-wife died. His salvation, according to God's Word was still intact.

What would happen if he left his wife/kids for the other woman then told God to take His commands and shove it? See the difference yet?