I’m a member of a site called Rethinkinghell.com and the sister, rethinkinghell in facebook. For me, it all started with this thread that began my turn from ECT to CI:
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-religion/2240648/posts
A born again Christian who has a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ spends very little time thinking about hell. It is a real place, Jesus spoke about it a lot. When we have received Him, the fear of death and hell no longer torments us, and our thoughts turn to the joy of living for Him and spending eternity with Him when we are in heaven, our real home. This joy compels us to tell others this good news, so they too could abandon their fear of death and hell for the hope of heaven and the joy of a living relationship with Jesus.
I’m a regular reader of the site as well. Sympathetic but not yet convinced.
Electroconvulsive therapy?