We just bow to His purposes (and say "Ow! Ow! Ow!" And in my case, "#$%#! &$^T%%#! @$%$$#!") --- and Blessed be the Name of the Lord.
I was on The EWTN Radio network this afternoon with Barbara McGuigan talking about this essay about the strokes in light of redemptive suffering. The show is available as an MP3 file, starting at 55:15;
http://listen.ewtn.com/~JW/~JW20161001.mp3