Typical catholic in denial response. I suppose you think a woman that gets raped isn't a victim either because she wore a short skirt. You don't foist this kind of crap on a 10 year old. Hell yes I was a victim. But I had it easy. At least I wasn't molested by some pedophile priest like so many catholic boys were.
Seriously, I hope you get the mental help you need.
I don’t know if you’re a traveler or not but you might want to put a card in your wallet stating that if you’re ever in need of emergency hospital care that you refuse to be taken to a Catholic hospital, since 20-30% of America’s hospitals are run by the Catholic Church (in my area it’s 50%) and you would rather die. The doctor might take your temperature in your mouth and you would become a victim again.