Who is asking you to “judge” or “cast stones”? This is about whether they should receive communion in the Catholic church.
You’re not even Catholic, are you?
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Born, baptized and bred Catholic.
Catholic school for 12 years plus kindergarten.
Attend daily Mass Sundays through Fridays.
Lead the daily rosary before Mass when it's my turn.
Married in the Church as well, by my Catholic priest first cousin.
Have lunch a few times a year with a retired priest who was the FIRST priest to talk about Church history in his sermon.
Buried my poor, dear sweet hubby in the Church and buried him in a Catholic cemetery. I bought a DOUBLE plot for both our ashes...when it's my turn.