Well, Jesus is the one who taught us the proper standards with with to judge these things and commanded us to hold ourselves to those standards, so I don’t think you’ll find much help appealing to him about these matters.
To whom else would I turn? Jesus is the way, the truth and the life.
I try not to judge others, even if I disapprove of their behavior. I won't cast the "first stone," but YOU, go ahead, cast away.