As a lifelong Methodist, I’m seriously considering the Wesleyan or a Lutheran Missouri Synod church.
I’ve had enough of mine watering the Bible down.
Read what Jesus has to say to the churches in the first 3 chapters of the Book of Revelation. These people who are openly defying the Word of God are in some serious trouble with Him, I’m afraid. Jesus said he will spew them out of his mouth. That’s serious stuff.
After five generations of Methodists in my family, I finally accepted reality and have been happy in the LCMS. Check it out. It’s a robust church theologically, with publications, seminaries, a web site and a strong line of Biblical defense.
I went from UMC to LCMS 27 years ago, have never looked back. OTOH, as an LCMS I taught at a Wesleyan college for over a decade, and the few doctrinal differences weren't enough to make either the college or me uncomfortable. Whichever one you find God more closely, go there.