What you say is the real sad part. Even sadder is the fact that very few are awake to the hidden poison of throwing out or rather changing the Ten Commandments the way they like. The Ten Commandments are explained very well by the Church and summarized very well in the Catechism of the Catholic Church for adults. Few Catholics want this book because they want to interpret the Bible the way they want Christianity without the cross, and still convince themselves that “I’m OK”!
God does not send people to hell. People who invented the “truth” (small “t”) all their lives, when they die and when they see the Truth (big “T”) Who is God, they choose the only other place that exists for all eternity, where there is not God. That place is called Hell!