My dad died shortly before my aunt, who was in a nursing home in Pittsburg, near her daughter. The nursing home people said that an old guy who looked like her and wore a baseball hat came to the desk looking for her room. We all think that was my dad because of the hat. She would not get any elderly visitors from outside the nursing home because the did not live in Pittsburg, and the people in the home would know him if he was a resident.
Fabulous account. Thank you for sharing it.