[terycarl]

"You have convinced yourself that You do not get to come along and redefine her own reasons for her.some..."

I redefined nothing, she has come to her conclusions based on reasons that she assumes are correct...I seek only to convince her that her reasoning is in error...it is.

[BlueDragon]

I redefined nothing

Sure you did. Denying that you did so doesn't work.

she has come to her conclusions based on reasons that she assumes are correct

Assume? That's where the problem is in your own attempts to redefine her reasons into mere strawmen of your own making ---like I told you.

It wasn't about assuming anything much on her part, but instead she has legitimate reasons. Unless you can some how adequately deal with those reasons --- everything will just keep going around in big circles.

I seek only to convince her that her reasoning is in error...it is.

So you say. Not interested in the self-justifications coupled with arguments of mere assertion.