Sexual abuse is one of the main causes of the homosexual orientation in both men and women. An even bigger one for men, in my opinion, is an absent or distant father. A boy has to recognize his masculinity in his father or he can continue in his original attachment to his mother and become gender-confused. There’s really no such thing as “gay”, it’s Gender Identity Disorder (GID). I highly recommend the work of Dr. Joseph Nicolosi on this matter.
The “born that way” lie/error is an attack on fatherhood. It’s saying that there will be no harmful effect on a boy who’s fatherless. In addition to the confusion of the homosexual orientation and the attempt to absorb maleness through compulsive sexual activity, fatherlessness drives things like illegitimacy, violence, drugs, gangs, poverty, dropout rates, prison sentences and early death in America’s inner city war zones.
Good comments... I agree with everything you said. I would add that there is no such thing as homosexuality either. There is only sexuality.... which can manifest itself as either normal or perverted.