Two mommies are not legal parents. And Michael and his lesbian “mommies” are not a good influence, in a VBS or any other Catholic setting, for the other kids. I’m sorry you don’t realize that.
Second, VBS is supposed to be for the good of a needy child like Michael--- not expecting him, personally, to be a source of doctrine, guidance and influence to the other kids. We look to the adults to provide good guidance and influence for him, in the name of Christ Our Lord.
Don't you realize for whose benefit VBS is supposed to be?
What's your pastoral strategy for Michael?
Michael’s two mommies is now legal. We stopped fighting more than 40 years ago and this is the result.