[needmorePaine]

Pray for your enemies, it will drive them crazy. Seriously you must pray for them and keep a good attitude toward your enemies so you will not be judged as guilty as they are.

Telling them you will pray for them drives them nuts. They respond with a "How dare you pray for me" attitude.

[mountainlion]

“How dare you pray for me”

I did not tell them. Since I can not change their ways I protect myself with prayer. It is only between God and me.

[caww]

....”Telling them you will pray for them drives them nuts”...

I don’t think they care and will frequently just blow it off. It’s seen as avoiding the issue at hand...

I generally block the tone and words not addressing the issue....so i can hear what they really might be saying. Often there’s no substance...in that case i might walk away.