since when do dreams define theology? The God I believe in is merciful to all, and Jesus died for the unborn as well. Those precious little ones are safe in the arms of their Savior, washed by His blood. An adult if they become a believer and die before they can be baptized, similarly goes to Heaven to be with their Savior. Baptism is an important sacrament and an outward sign of obedience, but the change in the heart is what is important.
Are you serious? Baptism is not necessary? What are your views on abortion?