You need someone to explain to you that the woman has no choice about whether that egg is fertilized and implants.
A basic high school biology course would be a vast help to you.
MM, not all of us need a lesson in biology, though some might need to learn about the 🐦 and the 🐝
The only thing she has to say is yes, to her husband, you know, the same thing the Virgin Mary said to Joseph, which resulted in Mary having a bunch of kids. Joseph and Mary just did what came naturally.
In my culture, women have quite a lot to say about whether their eggs are fertilized.