You said it can’t possibly happens because you know some Catholics who...
You canno’t possibly, not even remotely know what it is to be Catholic ... because you aren’t Catholic.
Thinking you are ‘in the know’ doesn’t make it so.
It still cracks me up that little old Protestant you, knows more about Catholicism and what a Catholic experiences, than a lifelong faithful Catholic.
Protestants are funny - you think you’re Catholic.
For the Greater a Glory of God
Discuss the issues all you want, but do not make it personal.
Mindreading is a form of making it personal.